some people are feelers-they love to touch/grab/hug
some are visualisers-they love what they see
some are audio(cant remember)-they are in love
and are good with words
heard this on *moments with mo* over the weekend
and it got me thinking...........
i like to touch and be touched but i'm more comfortable
commiting all kinds of touchry in private
i like hugs but i'm not prone to giving or taking them freely
i have also been known to act kinda cold in the midst of people
so i have discovered i am not a feeler............
i do like to look at good stuff
but i prefer words.....thats the audio stuff i forgot
i love sms's,mails..sometymes i dont even say all i wanna with
a fone call sometymes cos i can be a very private person
if you call moi at work...i may cut you short
you call me and i am in company of someone....i may cut you short
but while i dont subscribe to 1230-430am calls(except4special people)
my best fone conversations are between 10pm and midnight
then i am relaxed......probably on my bed....uninhibited
thats me at my best....
so the thing is......how do you know which one you are
and which one ur partner/boyfriend/shagger/fuckmate is???
cos the key to a good relationship
is understanding which you are and which he/she is
so you balance it out
wit my first i remember dropping little notes in shoes,shirt pockets,pants,bags,books and while he would
find them later and say thank you,grin at moi
and grab moi....he never did such for me....
after a while i didnt bother no more......
he asked why...i said cos u didnt appreciate it.....
he said he does but he just isnt good with words.....
which brings me to........
just cos a person doesnt love you the way you want
doesnt mean they dont love you with all they have......
cos the only thing that makes life worth living
is a deep and enduring love.......
even if for most of us..........
we can only be sure of God's love
and the love of our family..........
but for those of us hoping......s
he/he's out there...........*wink*