Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Begging...........

Begging isnt cute

especially when the person begging
is a guy i cant stand

he thinks if he makes himself an ass
you will take pity on him

while it happened that way for someone i know
to date we say it was a case of sympathy love

in my case it just makes me dislike the guy more
cos its either i like you or i dont
begging just aiint cute

so we were journeying home yesterday
and this song comes on the radio
Down on my knees-i'm begging you(Ayo)


Down on my knees, I'm begging you,
Down on my knees, I'm begging you,
Down on my knees, I'm begging you,
Please, please don't leave me

Do you really think she can love you more than me,
Do you really, really think so
Do you really think she can gave you more than me,
Baby I know she won't
Cause I loved you, unconditionally,
I gave you even more than, I had to give
I was willing for you to die,
Cause you were more precious to me, than my own life

Down on my knees, I'm begging you,
Down on my knees, I'm begging you,
Down on my knees, I'm begging you,
Please, please don't leave me

I won't believe, that you really, really,
Wanna leave me, just because of her
Have you forgot about, all the things, we've been through,
She was not the one, who was there for you
I loved you unconditionally,
I gave you even more than, I had to give
I was willing for you to die,
Cause you were more precious to me, than my own life

Down on my knees, I'm begging you,
Down on my knees, I'm begging you,
Down on my knees, I'm begging you,
Please, please don't leave me

Don't leave me, I'm begging,
I love you, I need you, I'm dying, I'm crying, I'm begging,
Please love me
I love you, I love you,
I'm begging, please love me,
I'm dying, I'm crying
Please don't'leave me, no, no, no, no, no

Down on my knees, I'm begging you.
Down on my knees, I'm begging you.
Down on my knees, Down on my knees
I'm begging you, you, you
Down on my knees
Down on my knees
Down on my knees
I'm begging you
Down on my knees
Down on my knees
Down on my knees
I'm begging you




My pal goes he hates the song
how can a woman beg that way?

I say guys too arent allowed to beg
he says guys are
in his words
if it was a guy singing............
the level of begging isnt high enough
he thinks its aiight for a guy to ask
his family AND friends to go along with him
on a begging spree
he is allowed to beg continously till the babe says yes

he should beg till he becomes a nuisance and people go like
haba...gree for the guy now.............(trust naija)

we all laughed
but what's ur take ?
is begging cute?
should guys beg
but ladies be ladies and not beg????

25 comments:

ablackjamesbond said...

First!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ablackjamesbond said...

Ok *panting*...begging isn't cute really, especially when it involves someone who doesnt feel the same way about u.

It smirks of desperation and in my experience i think it's usually borne out of obsession or the need to win a 'prize' or achieve an 'objective'.

But u can beg someone who loves u and who u love if and when u wrong them. I think that is allowed.

Enigma said...

Im sorry, but begging puts me off...so much, ive been labelled wicked..i just cant stand it.

That being said, i aint too proud to beg, but cos i know how much i hate it, i dont beg, i'll never say never though...it will probably depend on how thick the situation is...

Lady Koko said...

DO U KNOW I LISTEN TO THAT AYO'S SONG..EVERY SINGLE DAY...DONT ASK ME I DNT KNU WHY..HER VOICE IS JUST..err..unique??? IT WAS ON REPEAT A COUPLE OF WEEKS AGO...ON ONE OF MY STAY AT HOME AFTERNOONS..AND THAT IS HOW I burst out crying while singing along(lady koko is a freak like that lol)..I ACTUALLY STARTED TO BELIEVE THAT I WAS HER AND I WAS REALLY BEGGING SOMEONE..YEA I KNU WEIRD EXPERIENCE ANYWAY ......LOL
u knu wot....i can only talk for myself...LADY KOKO WILL NEVER BEG...UNLESS I HAVE WRONGED MY MAN..AND I know for a facT HE STILL CARES ABOUT ME BUT FEELS BETRAYED BY WHAT I DID...AND I KNOW THAT HE IS A GOOD MAN AND I dont want to loose him..ONLY UNDER SUCH CIRCUMSTANCES WILL RELAX MY PRIDE AND BEG..PERHAPS CRY SMALL TOO...APPEAL TO HIS EMOTIONS..LOLLOL..but ths being sed.u need to knu when to stop..WHEN THE PERSON IS GETTING EVEN MORE PISSED OFF BY UR ACTION U NEED TO JUST COUNT UR LOSES AND GO TO BED!!!!! men begging..approparite only in this situation as well...PLS PLS PLS..STOP BEGGING GIRLS TO BE UR WOMAN,.I MEAN IF SHE REALLY WANTED TO BE ON UR ARMS..IT WUDNT HAVE TO COME TO THAT..forget..oh maybe she is fronting...SHE AINT JUST THAT MUCH INTERESTED LUV..THE WRITINGS ARE ON HER BLOODY FOREHEAD!!!!!!!!!
P.S: xoxo

ababoypart2 said...

Sometimes - choice isnt limitless. Nice one

QMoney said...

WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAATS DAT????
of course a lady should never beg dat much,its UNLADYLIKE please!!!!!i cant stand dat song,wetin??of course a guy can beg as much as possible(lol) but a gal should only beg small after she has truly offended self!!!

Afrobabe said...

I personally would like to be begged by his family and friends..
But can imagine my skin crawling if he himself keeps begging and kneeling down and all that ish.
I think its ok for a babe to beg big time if she is caught cheating.

Especially if the sex wasn’t even worth the whole drama.

Smaragd said...

i really like that song by Ayo, though the begging gets to me everytime i listen to it...lol... geez,like how much begging does the guy need? mcheew!

i detest begging, and by that i mean being the beggee or the begger! i've begged a guy only once in my life and i regret it till date!

BUT, being begged (in a romantic way)by a guy i really like and dont want to lose isnt bad.

Smaragd said...

twinny, how now?

Mz. Dee said...

I rily lyk that song o..
O well.. hmm beggin.. i think guyz cud beg in a lovin way... but beggin 4 a girl to date or marry him.. along with family members.. is a bit too rubbisheeee.
Girls.. ah.. we dont beg.. we "seductively ask" lol

ejura said...

My take on this:

1. Man begging woman who loves him is good.

2.Man begging woman who doesn't care about him for a month is well, managable.

3. Man begging woman who doesn't care about him for more than a month is pathetic and irritating.Very much so!

4. Woman begging man she cares about and who cares about her too for a week is fine. If his shakara continues then she should stop begging and spend her time doing other things. She is permitted to cry her eyes out at night while waiting for her phone to ring. He'd def come around all things being equal.

5. Woman begging man who doesn't care about her is pathetic. How did she get into the situation in the first place? Three words for her: Get a life!

LG said...

lol@ ablackjamesbond

me,i'm with ejura o.
babes how body?

Allied said...

I dont think begging is cute for a female or a male.. but i think i can tolorate it if he comes from a guy.. but from a female..

Please never beg a guy like that cause he is leaving you.. what!!

Naija Idol said...

theres a certain level begging gets to dat becomes irritating. apologizing and begging are two different things.me i dont think i can beg anyone except i have done something really wrong and he/she doesnt want to accept my apology. abeg fashy dat side, no pride and all, i dont think i can beg.

NikkiSab said...

Begging....hmmmm.....wen its not done in excess like dat song den yep, i tink its ok. In relationships its a very delicate matter depending on d situation.

flabby said...

haba!! begging is NOT cute!! regardless..what does gender have to do with anything!

ibiluv said...

@ablackjamesbond.......i agree with ya...............

@enigma.........*u remember i aiint too proud to beg for what i call my own*..TLC....thats a good way to put it.......

@ladykoko.........well said......

@ababoypart2........i aim to please......*wink*.........

@afrobabe.......only you would liken begging to if the gbensing was good or not.......*wink*..........how u dey sis?

@smaragd..........na our great great great great grand pa start that begging thingy whey our family we dey like make men dey beg us romatically......*wink*.......
twinny i dey oooo.......u dey see this rain?????

@ejura..........u get PHD for begging analogy????......lol

@lg......i concur.....body is licious as always.....*wink*.........

@allied....too many phalluses to pick from.....why beg like that.....*wink*........

@naija idol......pride na better thing.............

@flabby.....abi??????............

Afrobabe said...

I am good jare...but if the gbenshing was good, no need to beg now..

If it was bad....the begging is painful...

ibiluv said...

@afrobabe......lol........i concur........

rethots said...

1st (in this case) i guess 'twould be assumed that they both had something going on ('tis ridiculous to beg for a relationship).

So, this is my take....while 'tis not very pleasant to beg. I would rather not a lady begs. Why? For me, it makes her loss 'that stuff' about her men should crave for.

'tis fair enough for the guy to beg (afterall, they still do at the trads....all the postrating et al) however, there comes a point one should beg no more. If not he loses his dignity as a man.

ibiluv said...

@rethots.......nicely put.......

Free-flowing Florida said...

begging is unattractive, in men as well as n women. 4 crying out loud, 's/he said NO, can't u get it into ur greasy head'

ibiluv said...

@freeflowingflorida.....i agree......."get into ur greasy head"......lol.....reminds me of *coming to america*.............

Buttercup said...

haha i love that song cos its so diff! not so much the lyrics, but yea....yea, beggin can be really irritatin but other times, i enjoy being begged..also depends on wat im being begged for..

ibiluv said...

@buttercup.........aiight.........