FIRST HUG

Found a new word-well not in the dictionary or anything
but u know how we all say
fuck,shag,gbensh,roll in the hay..........
i guess it's not new to some
but i like how it sounds
boffing
thats my new word for *the do*


I was 18
8pm April 24 1996
yea i remember the date
was seeing my cousin off to her abode
cos we lived in different apartments the first year in uni
saw a guy..........
and i thot *Oh my God those biceps are not real*
he was at the junction with a friend(small guy)
i didnt notice him(smally)
i only had eyes for this tall dark (found out)good looking dude
he wasnt built like Arnold/Vin but at that age,most guys i knew were skinny
they said hello to my cousin and the introductions followed
i hated my cousin that instant for knowing a hunk like that and not telling me
we walked on and i accused her and she was like
oh she met them a few days ago
they are a riot-bunch of 2 cousins and 3 other friends
already we had such a team-cousin and 1 and 3 other friends -how cute

Anyone ever wondered how after u meet a person u seem to always bump into them?
next day and every day after that-our paths would cross.........
i must have being sending out some vibes
he seemed smitten too
but no one was making a move
after a while he would come for visits
i lived on a storey building-i could always see who was coming up the stairs
if it was him i would meet him/them at the top of the stairs
Ohhhhhhhhh i am headed to K's place(my cousin)
we would stroll down there together
the idea was-much as i was giddy having him around
i wasnt looking forward to being alone with him
to this day i have no idea why i had such a notion

we kept on at this till Dec
cousin and I found an apartment we could both move into
was closer to Dudes abode-lets call him M
A day later we move in-he walks by
Oh u babes now live here?(M)
yea(I)
I live just around the corner-i mite drop in tonite(M)
Oh we are travelling in a few hours(I)
headed home for an Aunts wedding(I)
When will u b back?(M)
lectures on mon so back sun nite(I)
ok see u then(M)

Home/Wedding was fun-all the while i had it at the back of my mind
*He* lives around the corner from my new abode
Got to sch-roomie says she saw him yesterday and invited him in for a drink
he was grilling her about me so she just said
ASK HER OUT
he was perplexed she said-she goes i have noticed how u both have been pussyfooting around each other and it's sooooooo obvious to who is looking u are both smitten
ask her out already
he goes ok(I guess that was the impetus he needed)

When she relays the convo-at first i freak out
then i go-hey i have been drooling since April
i am gonna say yes(if he dares ask)

He comes to visit-we chat,laff as a group
he says he's leaving
i get up to see him off
we walk a few mins then he says
Ibi-will u be my girlfriend?
I ask-are u sure thats what u want?
He says yes-well i can give u tyme to think about it
I said YES-i dont need tyme to think about nothing
been waiting since forever for u to ask
So there in the middle of the street
he gets this big grin on his face-moves closer and gives me a big bear HUG
i felt cocooned

he then proceeds to gimme a peck
T'was soooo sweet
some guy who wasn't enjoying the show
yells at us to get a room before we get squashed by a car
we say our goodbyes
and i go to the room grinning from ear to ear
to tell roomie,cousin and other friends the good news
I HAVE A BOYFRIEND

is the title of the post right?
is it first hug or first boyfriend
*wink*

have a fabulous weekend
MWAH