HONEST MEN

So now,i enjoy reading blogs rather than updating mine
dont mind me
saw Linda Ikeji on Funmi Iyanda's show wed 27th june...........girl is cute
she sure deserves better than Dan
u go girl..................
u will find u a honest man
and it is tru
All i really need myself is a honest man
i dont understand why men cant practise fidelity???????????????????


we got into a talk the other day,Kaz(my cuz) and I
i said a woman just understands and practices fidelity
y are men so weak?????????????
we(women) get asked out on dates DAILY...by people we give a damn about ,by people we wouldn't give the tyme of day ,by asswipes
but we dont go saying yes to everyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
or anyone else once we have a man
i mean the thing that i appreciate most in a relationship is ATTENTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
if a guy cares about me ,he will be attentive
i dont mean being attentive like a lap dog................. but u know
i wake up and he calls/sends a text....he is taking his 10min break at work and he calls/text/email,he gets off work and he visits/call/text
we have a late night talk and one of us falls asleep first
i used to do this with Rah so i know it is possible
(Rah is my confidant/boo/elder brother/friend/crush/boyfriend i never dated)
unfortunately Rah belongs to Dee now and we dont do the attention thing no more
all his attention is spent on Dee now

so i mean if a guy can do this he sure wont have a wandering mind
and thats how u know when u r man is cheating
his calls/texts become infrequent and his visits none existent
he suddenly becomes busy
haba................thats y we have cell fones
when i am busy and i cant really call/text,i could be in a meting and send a text Hi...
it just shows him i am thinking about him
like Beyonce said..if i am not your everything, how about if i am your nothing?nothing at all to u
i think that is just apt.....................if i mean the world to u and i should........................ u would think about me all the tyme
i know a man's mind is too small to wander on its own....................... .it will get lost
but i think brothers should make an attempt
i look at cute guys but dont get temtped...read greenpalms's blog about nne's bash 2 final temptation and i thot yea
women, we do that.....................but men........
God i wonder y we love them so.........................
but u see i am a one man woman ..............dont like to share
so my man better understand that
else ......................he can use the door
dont need that kind of drama in my life
so i am holding out..........
HONEST MEN...HERE PLS...............................lol