Saturday, October 25, 2008

How Best Do we Express Love????

A friend once said the only way to express love is by boffing(sex).......

another said-sex is the only thing by nature known to man and animals alike
that gives pleasure.....the best known to man......

another said for God so loved the world
........that He gave us sex............

if it was meant for pro-creation ONLY
how come ecstasy is involved????

we worship,feed,sleep,pray.....
other activities of our daily life.........

some we enjoy immensely
some we don't particularly enjoy
but only SEX initiates ecstasy.....

through the ages..........
some have killed for it
others betrayed for it
age,colour,creed,religious,political,social affiliations.........
don't matter.........


ladies.....
if the phallus didnt give so much pleasure......
would you touch it????

damn thing isnt good looking......

your lover may be drop dead gorgeous
but other than the fact that a good sized phallus
promises an earth shattering tyme

we probably wouldn't have them things near us.......

i'm no male
i have no idea if men think vaginas are good looking
but me thinks for guys as well
its all about what it can do
not what it looks like

cos if it was about looks

we would all die virgins...........*wink*....

35 comments:

InCogNaija said...

lmao @ phallus not good looking.
anyways, i doubt that sex is the only true way to express love. It is one way, and it is definitely expressive but love can be shown in various other ways...especially as not all love is 'canal'.

InCogNaija said...

sorry i had to add a lil something...about 2 posts before this, you posted about love. that kind of says something to this topic.

InCogNaija said...

oh and btw, 1st, 2nd and now 3rd!
its been long since i last laid claim to these, but indulge me. lol!

Naapali said...

Interesting perspectives. The exclusivity of the act as sole expression of love I doubt since the act itself is very often separate from love.

miz-cynic said...

ibi u hv come again o.does size even mata?na usage b d koko.me thnks some phalluses r actualy cute.

InCogNaija said...

can you all stop calling it 'phallus'? lmao! thats just somehow. try kpakos momentos or something. Phallus is just so scientific, makes it sound gross!
and in agreeance with naaps, the act can definitely be separated from love.

naijalines said...

Hmmmm....LOL. Can I plead the 5th on this one...because:

1. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
2. What's love got to do with it? Think pros and johns...

Interesting post, reminds me of 'Soundtracks'. Ever thought of doing Soundtracks two? Should be a hoot.

Sting said...

I think the penis is good looking but that's just me.

Sex is the only thing that gives ecstasy? I don't know about that.

Just...Toluwa said...

lol @ sting. and Lmao at we all dying virgin.
I trust human beings to find a way of bringing themselves ecstasy without sex.

Cappuccine Baby said...

omg lol you are not serious!

LG said...

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm'
na siddon read i dey o -)

Red Sapphire said...

Very interesting...and i kinda agree the phallis aint great looking but some have indeed killed for it.U always make me laugh this chic.

doll said...

winks back. LOL

AlooFar said...

Oh, the summary is phallus ain't goodlooking, right? Well, it depends on the number of phallus(es) you've seen and your definition of "goodloooking"!

Even if it looks like cucumber or a tuber of yam - with veins that look like spikes, it still retains its "charge."

Well, if it were for looks & d trouble of "getting her there", some dudes would rather have holes in their beds (or pillows) ;)

yourbestfriendxoxo said...

Ha ibiluv this one raw oooooooooooolol but i love it, i fit borrow make i take sound cool for my boyfriend

Miss Definitely Maybe said...

Sex is not synonymous with love neither is love synonymous with sex. Sex is an anamalistic instinct in all of us infact all animals, it has nothing to do with love, thats why you can sleep with anyone even a stranger off the street and still enjoy sex......but love makes sex better, you enjoy sex with someone you love more than someone you have no feelings for. Love enhances sex, turns it iinto 'lovemaking' its more sensual more passionate.

rethots said...

Fascinating............

rayo said...

lol @incognaija's 4th comment. its all abt what it can do mehn

N.I.M.M.O said...

Chei, Ibi na you talk am o. As to phalluses, I think beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. I have seen some babes drool.
@Missy: Sex is not synonymous with love neither is love synonymous with sex. Sex is an anamalistic instinct in all of us in fact all animals, it has nothing to do with love, thats why you can sleep with anyone even a stranger off the street and still enjoy sex......but love makes sex better, you enjoy sex with someone you love more than someone you have no feelings for. Love enhances sex, turns it iinto 'lovemaking' its more sensual more passionate.

Na waa o. Can you please expand this into a book or something?

Parakeet said...

Lol...madam, you gave urself away. You actually think vagina's are ugly. You're right...the penis is actually a very ugly tool.

~Sirius~ said...

LMAO!

cos if it was about looks

we would all die virgins...........*wink*....

I'm with you on that girl.

Vera Ezimora said...

LOL

But sex is definitely not the only way to xpress love oh....haba haba. Dat one na dangerous theory. Sex???? Lai lai!

Naija Idol said...

LMAO. u nor go kill us o.

UnNaked Soul said...

It goes like this:
Lets keep ourselves company. ok
Let hold hands. ok
I love you. ok
Here's a gift for you. ok
Lets have dinner. ok
Lets get married. ok
Can we fuck while we are doing all this? WHY NOT!

My opinion? A CLEAN Vagina is a beauty to behold... Even the thought of it is_________

ebonyhyde said...

i feel 'phallus or kpakos'or wat eva u wanna call it shoul'nt b d main determinant of expresin lov!but it doesnt also mean we should put is aside as not relevant.me tink lov shoul'nt b all about d tins we can see alon it should be encompasin i'e it should fit allround.

Iyalode said...

hehehehe.... intresting
sex is not the only way to show love
maybe one of the ways *wink*

(¯`·._.·[***Fresh&Fab***]·._.·´¯) said...

For a guy, friends say im strange, but i dont believe in sex sex sex all the . I like a proper relationship

Lady Koko said...

FRESH &FAB..NICE TO MEET U OOO....am lady koko...buhahahahhahh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
p.s; IBI BEYEBEY......U NEED TO SEE MY EX'S...THE MERE SIGHT WILL TURN U OWN......LOL
P.P.S:XOXO

Tales said...

lol... mehn, they are good looking phalluses o!and it matters if you're gonna go down on it

ps: 'phallus'?... is that what we call it now?lol

http://talesandtallies.wordpress.com

Smaragd said...

now i know why i have missed u. lol

talk about two very ugly parts that come together to make the most beautiful feelings eh!

tried endlessly to post on ur wall on facebook today to no avail.

Nefertiti said...

LMAO@ the comments here!... someone even called it a 'tool' ROTFL. First time on your blog... Phallus? Phallus? This is weird. You remind me of someone I used to be friends with hmmm... okay, off to read more

Banky W said...
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Banky W said...

heheheheheh... nice post...

except i happen to think my Mr Capable Jnr is very good looking, thank u very much :o)~

FineBoy Agbero said...

na wa o!!! Dis kain post!!!

True-true, genitals no fine o; abi why we dey hide dem?

Love is not so separate from sex sha. Evn when u dont go all the way, kissin and fondlin and touchin nko?

ibiluv said...

@incognaija......i'm with you that it is not the only way to express luv..........yes not all love is carnal.....awwww shucks.....gold,silver and bronze.....U ROCK!!!!!!!!

@naapali.....*very* seperate.....i *should* know....*wink*.....

@miz-cynic.....sweets,i prefer them as close to a 9inch as possible cos i have *NO* use for a 3inch phallus....cute?????...i agree a good sized phallus is a beauty to behold......

@incognaija......u back dear???...lol...i LOVE the word phallus....sex IS seperate from love....very.....

@naijalines......i concur with cynic.....just cos i think they dont look particularly fantastic dont mean i dont love them......soundtracks2????....maybe......

@sting.....it in itself???....good looking...i concur....*wink*....pray tell
me something else that gives ecstasy......

@just...toluwa.....common spill.........

@cappuccine baby.......i am....*wink*......

@lg............mwah............

@red sapphire.......i always set out to....*wink*.....

@doll.........hugs......

@aloofar.......what do u think????...i stopped counting after a while....just this morning...i saw a man peeing.....definition of good looking...Denzel....now i dont mean down right ugly but u must admit....it just dangles btw a man's legs.......no????......lol

@yourbestfriendxoxo........borrow away......raw i disagree...moreover i am well above the age of consent....*wink*

@miss definitely maybe......i didnt say it was synonymous with love...i said someone i know,expressed the opinion....i wasnt in love-or in danger of falling in love with everyone i've had.........i do agree,when in love
sex means soooooooo much more,which is why it is *then* termed lovemaking....

@rethots.......u think?????

@rayo.......i concur.......

@n.i.m.m.o...........a book?????.....my creative juices may dry up after chapter1.......

@parakeet........MWAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!...it IS...but i LOVE it!!!!!!!!!!!!....tool??????lmbao.....

@sirius......honesty.......bless ya......

@vera ezimora......just an opinion,not a scientific fact.....*wink*...

@naija idol....kill...no...make u laugh...yes....

@unnaked soul......u've been missed......like i said...it promises a good time......

@ebonyhyde.......its not love i tried to explain.....i was expressing opinions on how to express it......

@iyalode.....where u been????one of the ways.....i concur.....

@freshandfab.....NO ONE is that shallow....loving sex and needing it ALL the tyme are two very seperate things....i only expressed opinions on how to sometymes express love.....

@lady koko.....the mere sight?????......u were sure of what it could do....that's why you could drool......*wink*....

@tales.....i've always loved to call it that....berra than willie....

@twinny......oh sweets.....u see...someone who agrees...it's not a good looking body part but it gives enormous pleasure...God has a sense of humour....u could have sent a mail.....

@nefertiti.......used to be friends with?????......hmmmmmm....tool????that's a new name.....*wink*......

@banky w........lol...a delight to behold i reckon....*wink*.......

@fineboy agbero.........u see.........all them things dey lead to the final do.......